The Bully Everyone Loves

This is actually not my first blog on Bullying …

I was a volunteer during a local surfing competition this past week. This is the story of my experience …

This man, we’ll call him Charlie, works in association with the National Kidney Foundation and Rich Salick surfing competitions. After having several unpleasant encounters with him, including shoving me during the first day of setting up, avoiding him the 2nd and 3rd day, he finally pushed me over the edge, and I allowed my mouth to lose it’s temper …

Upon returning from a job inquiry where I had just been hired, I went to get my badge and had gone around to help out on several occasions and checked with others to see if they needed anything. I hadn’t even been there 2 hours yet. Most people had things pretty squared away by that point, but I did manage to assist with a handful of tasks in that time.

At the start of lunch he begins accusing me of not working and demanding I leave. I informed that I had done several things then I stared at him for a moment. He asked me at that point if I knew who he was. All I saw was a bully with a big mouth and big stomach. I’ve dealt with bullies since childhood, and I never backed down from them. I can smell them. They wreak of trash talk and are always full of bull …

I didn’t have a problem with anybody else. None that I was aware of anyway, but I do not tolerate people who behave the way he does or the way he treats people. Everyone else, I swear it’s like they have battered wife syndrome. They see nothing wrong with his behavior. So I walk away very angry after standing up to him, and I’m seen as the bad guy. I wasn’t going to win this battle and that’s what made me so angry.

Just a like a typical bully tho, he “goes crying to mommy” so to speak and threatens to call the police … while I was on my way out already. As if it would matter after I’m gone.

Considering how pleasant everyone else in charge was, this guy is just an embarrassment to the foundation and the sport …

None of them even know that I’m homeless. I’m not a drinker or an addict. I don’t smoke anything. I was hoping to get a good reference out of doing this. I had hoped that maybe being affiliated with the organization and surf sport might help in finding work in the area. I’d been struggling for a while trying to find employment.

Needless to say my chances were blown and I didn’t get to eat much on this day.

This is why we live in a government tyranny. Because people justify, minimize or just plain do not see the reality about someone like this man. And it’s men just like him, or worse who control our country … and then everyone accepts the lies and propaganda about a person like myself, rather than believing the truth.

Honestly, the truth is I’m nobody. Just an abandoned husband and forgotten father who means nothing to anyone. The other truth is that no matter where I go or how I try, I’m simply not allowed to be myself, because being myself is not being like everyone else …

The Great American Hoax

Armed And Free

The Worldly Church

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